Whether it's due to a divorce or a breakup, the fact of the matter is that any time there is a major change in the family structure, it's going to be painful and suck. The good news is that most families balance out after a period of turbulence. If you're in the beginning stages of a breakup, remember that today's pain is most likely not forever.
Parent Alienation (PA) happens, but like everything it happens in degrees. When one parent is badmouthing the other parent, that is one element of a Parental Alienation situation, and it frequently is in response to the immediate emotions of a breakup. Most of the time that slows down and stops after a few months. This is generally considered a MILD case fo PA and will likely resolve itself.
When the badmouthing and fear mongering by the "Preferred Parent" continues to harm the relationship between the child and the "targeted parent" more than a few months, it becomes more of a concern. If the child starts to take on the beliefs of the Preferred Parent in regards to the Targeted Parent, intervention is necessary as soon as possible. This is generally considered a MODERATE case fo PA and requires some intervention and family therapy between the child and the targeted parent.
If the child has started to reject the targeted parent, and there is a breakdown in the communication between parent and child, immediate action is required to prevent long term mental health damage to the child. Parent Alienation is a clear manipulation of the child's right to have a loving relationship with both parents and it is child abuse. In this SEVERE form, it demands experienced experts and definite action by the targeted parent and the courts.
Parent Alienation (PA) happens, but like everything it happens in degrees. When one parent is badmouthing the other parent, that is one element of a Parental Alienation situation, and it frequently is in response to the immediate emotions of a breakup. Most of the time that slows down and stops after a few months. This is generally considered a MILD case fo PA and will likely resolve itself.
When the badmouthing and fear mongering by the "Preferred Parent" continues to harm the relationship between the child and the "targeted parent" more than a few months, it becomes more of a concern. If the child starts to take on the beliefs of the Preferred Parent in regards to the Targeted Parent, intervention is necessary as soon as possible. This is generally considered a MODERATE case fo PA and requires some intervention and family therapy between the child and the targeted parent.
If the child has started to reject the targeted parent, and there is a breakdown in the communication between parent and child, immediate action is required to prevent long term mental health damage to the child. Parent Alienation is a clear manipulation of the child's right to have a loving relationship with both parents and it is child abuse. In this SEVERE form, it demands experienced experts and definite action by the targeted parent and the courts.
Parent Alienation versus High Conflict Custody Case
PARENT ALIENATION Parental Alienation can be defined by these FIVE factors (although there are others):
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HIGH CONFLICT CUSTODY A High Conflict custody case is EXTREMELY DIFFERENT from a Parental Alienation Case
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Strategies for treating and dealing with:
PARENT ALIENATION
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HIGH CONFLICT CUSTODY CASE
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